So, here we are at the end of another year, and what a year it has been. Despite graduation, entering my graduate program, relocating, and a job change I feel little worse for the wear.  The one thing that I am certain of—and I think this is probably true for everyone—is that I am not the same person I was at this time last year. How we change and grow as people is really quite marvelous if you think about it. Every moment of time that we measure increases our measure as individuals, or at least it should.  

As is the custom this time of year, I have set some resolutions. Most of them surround writing more frequently, reading more, and maintaining a healthful lifestyle, but the resolution that I think most important is my resolve to be resolute.  I know that sounds like a turn of phrase just to sound clever, but it’s not.  See, to be resolute—to know where and how and why—reduces what I call the flutter of life. And, in these times of extreme change, flutter only causes more anxiety and stress than we need to endure.  

What will I be resolute about? Hmm. First, I will be resolute about my writing; it will be purposeful and pointed. It will have an opinion regardless of any fear I may have about sharing that opinion. Second, I will be resolute about myself and my abilities despite any amount of fear I may have about exposing weaknesses. Third, I will be resolute about others opinions. I will hold to the maxim that another’s opinion is not fact but rather simply apostrophe and not necessarily criticism. And finally, I will be resolute in my pursuit to be the kindest person I can possibly be.   

Happy New Year!